Description
For all parents of adolescents who feel “different” in some way, a first-of-its-kind, inclusive, evidence-backed guide to surviving the hard days and raising your teen to have confidence, joy, and a sense of belonging.
Parenting a teen who stands out can feel isolating, exhausting, and full of second-guessing. Whether a child is neurodiverse, struggles with mental health, lives with a disability or serious medical illness, or simply moves through the world differently from their peers, parents may find themselves unsure what to do next to support their child best. Authors and parents Dr. Kelli Harding and Sara Blanchard know this insecurity well, and it’s what inspired them to write Different together. This is the book they wish someone had handed them when they were starting out as parents.
This one-of-a-kind guide for one-of-a-kind teens is a compassionate road map for parents raising kids in a world built on outdated standards of achievement and success. It blends lived experience and evidence-backed research from a variety of fields — from medicine and education to positive psychology — to challenge the myth of “normal” and invite parents to see their kids’ differences as meaningful variations of the human experience. With warmth and honesty, Harding and Blanchard address the fears, guilt, grief, love, and hope that accompany raising teens who may not follow traditional timelines or rigid cultural expectations.
Through stories, expert and parent interviews, research findings, and practical tools, Different helps parents:
- increase connection, motivation, and belonging, and say goodbye to shame and comparison
- ditch outdated, narrow models of human success for proven principles of true human thriving
- process ambiguous grief to let go of the child they imagined and unconditionally accept and love the teen they have
- practice innovative, evidence-based self-care with the authors’ 5C model
- learn communication strategies to effectively navigate conflicts at home
- build healthier, more connected family relationships with practical tool kits
- explore labels and the compelling research showing how a parent’s perception can change their child’s outcomes
- foster supportive communities that incorporate differences as strengths
For parents who have felt judged, misunderstood, or alone in their journey, Different is both an emotional support lifeline and a joyful, deeply humane reframe of what it means for unique children to flourish on their own terms.
